PDA

View Full Version : November!!



Karla
10-25-2006, 11:50 PM
Hi everyone,
I have not been on the forum for a while. Needless to say I am totally wishing that I could find somewhere to hide and not face November. Like you Scott, November is jumpy for me. Yes a wonderful thing happened, Cydney Paige was born, and I will always be thankful for that blessing. But how do I face the reality of this November? I am so scared, I wish so much that it would not come. I have been searching my mind for ways to avoid coming face to face with the day Cydney Paige was born. What would I do? Here I have more or less no one who cares enough to understand how much she means to me, to even humor me by remembering her birthday. She is gone to them, it would hurt so much if no one remembers. I know everyone has their life to live, and they are pretty much busy, with little time to spare a thought for my girl, but it would mean so much. I am preparing for her memorial service on the 12th, and I pray that it will be ok, I want to celebrate her short life and hope that there can be a message of inspiration for everyone. I am so very confused these last few days, I barely trust myself to do anything right. So wish me luck and keep me in your thoughts.
Karla

tinantravis
10-26-2006, 12:39 PM
Karla:
Approach the coming of November as a time to remember Cydney Paige. It's not that you "lost" her....YOU HAD HER...and that is what is important. You can't control the thoughts or actions of others, so there's no reason to waste time or energy thinking about them. It's not about them. IT'S ABOUT YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER. Celebrate her life. It's her life that matters most. Good luck. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Kirk Kief
10-26-2006, 01:10 PM
Karla
This is abit off of this thread, but, PLEASE send me your address, again. Hopefully today so I can get the DVD to you for the memorial.