Missing Trevor

[DeeDee Ortiz]

My son Trevor has been gone for 1 week now. I am not doing to well at all. The pain is worse than I could have ever imagined. Trevor's twin brother Travis has been here most of the last month. He left to go back home today and will start back to work tomorrow. I am really worried about him. I am afraid with him now being away from the family, it will all really hit him hard. Please pray for our family, but especially Travis.

[Kerry]

I will pray for your family during this tragic time. I am so sorry the pain is worse. I remember the pain and sorrow so bad I thought I coudnt even breathe. The best advice I can give you is to call him and check in with him or even leave a message on his answering machine that you called and just saying hello, then he knows your thinking of him but not invading him if he is just needing time to adjust. Seems when someone dies and everyone leaves then its hard that life is sinking in and everything is moving around you but yourself. Best advice I can give you is get up and go outside and take a walk, dont stay inside all boggled up try and think the postives you can do for your family with the time right now. See in your area if there is a group you can join to tell your story when your ready. I had read up on it earlier, sad story. He sounded like a wonderful man that you had raised. You should be so proud to of raised him and his brother and how much of the good times you shared. I am sure he is looking down on you right now with open arms and thanking you for being the best mom you could be.

Kerry
Mother of Olivia,Sarah,Lane and Heavenly Angel Mallory

[linda]

Dee Dee,

We have been praying LOTS! My heart breaks for you and your family! I will lift Travis up for you! Try to stay strong and know that Trevor is watching over you!

[DeeDee Ortiz]

I am trying to be strong for my family. Some times I just can't control it and it all comes out. Today I just feel I need to be alone. I will probably go out to the cemetary today and take some fresh flowers for Trevor. I may take his CD player and play him some of his favorite music.

[Lyssa Sauer]

You dont have to always be the strong one, you cant. I had to learn that one. Praying for all of you at this time.

[DeeDee Ortiz]

Thank you for your prayers. I certainly need them now more than ever.

[DeeDee Ortiz]

Please remember my family in your prayers.

[Tasha Nicholls]

We are, DeeDee... all of you families who have lost loved ones so close to you are in my heart and mind this Thanksgiving.

((HUGS))

[Lyssa Sauer]

The first holiday without our children, I know your pain to some extent. I do pray for each and everyone of us here. DeeDee dont be afraid to say what you are feeling you need to get those out, dont try and be so strong hon! Hugging you from Idaho

[DeeDee Ortiz]

Trevor got his headstone today. It is something I have been waiting for, and wanting for weeks. But now seeing his name on it is hard.

[CrystalW]

DeeDee,
(((hugs))).. i'm so happy for you and sorry at the same time. I need to get Addison's stone ordered. I know I will be happy and sad to see it at the same time. Thinking of you.

[Estrella]

oh, DeeDee.....((((BIG HUGS))))