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Zelma's Daddy
09-04-2008, 04:54 PM
I just wanted to say hello, and that I really appreciate that there is a forum for this... today Was our still born baby's funeral, her name was Zelma, and she was 31 weeks along... its hard to do much other than cry right now.. but I am so glad i found this forum.
Vicki
09-04-2008, 04:58 PM
Hi Zelma's Daddy!!! We are glad you found us too!!!
I's so sorry that you lost your little Zelma (beautiful name by the way!) and we're here for you when you want to share more . . . today must have been such an incredibly hard day and my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family . . .
VIcki
Zelma's Daddy
09-04-2008, 05:20 PM
I thought I had cried myself dry this past week, untill I saw her little casket, then the floodgates opened... I wish I could say that today was the worst day of my life.. but this week there have been several, from the day that we first learned zelma was gone... or the night I held my dead daughter in my arms..
Owen-n-Andrew's_Mom
09-04-2008, 05:22 PM
Zelma is an adorable name! I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your family during this devastating time.
tanya723
09-04-2008, 05:24 PM
My heart goes out to you and your family for the loss of your precious baby girl, Zelma. My Sebastian's services were just over a month ago and I remember all too well what a difficult day it was. I'm sure that you are overwhelmed with many, many emotions right now. My prayers are with you today and for the upcoming days ahead of you. Take it slowly and take care of yourself and your family.
Tammy
09-04-2008, 05:25 PM
I just wanted to say hello, and that I really appreciate that there is a forum for this... today Was our still born baby's funeral, her name was Zelma, and she was 31 weeks along... its hard to do much other than cry right now.. but I am so glad i found this forum.
We welcome you. Im so sorry to hear of your little girl Zelma, please know my thoughts and heart go out to you and your family. Many of us remember that day when we had to say our final good-byes. We can certainly understand the emotions you are going through at this moment.
We are here for you. We will help you as much as we can for support, advise and encouragement. This is never an easy journey, but please know you have friends who will help you along the way.
Your little Zelma will live on forever in your heart and in ours.
Marcus Momma
09-04-2008, 08:22 PM
What a hard time you must be having hang in there. We will be praying for you and your family!
efswsjuly17
09-04-2008, 10:55 PM
I too am still grieving terribly for the loss of my little one a month and a half ago. I know your pain and what you are going through. We all do. I will be praying for you and your family during this time. Please feel free to call on us when you need anything. A shoulder to cry on, or just someone to vent to, we are all here to learn and listen to each other. May God keep you wrapped in His arms during this time, may He comfort you during these times of sadness.
With all my thoughts and prayers,
Brandy
Mommy to 3 Earthly Angels and my Precious Angel
Kerry
09-05-2008, 12:46 AM
I love your daughter's name like post before me. I will have to say it will be hard to forget her name I will remember it and I have never meant your family. I am so sorry you have to say your good bye to her but remember she knew how much you all loved her and she is not alone she has many other angels to play with. Right now I know you just want her in your arms. You want this nightmare over and you want to wake up. You will have lots of emotions you will go through but remember your not alone and we are all here for you happy or sad. Take Care and I am thinking of you today as you share Zelma's life to your family and friends.
Kerry
Mother of Olivia,Sarah,Lane and Heavenly Angel Mallory
marybethsmomma
09-05-2008, 03:34 PM
I am so sorry about your sweet Zelma. Today is exactly three months since my newborn daughter passed and I remember all those feelings. Saying goodbye was horrible. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. We all understand what you are going through. Zelma is not alone!! Neither are you and your family!!
Valerie'sMomma
09-05-2008, 09:25 PM
Zelma's daddy, I am glad you have found us. All of us understand what you are going through and the final goodbye is heartbreaking. I hope you and your family love and heal together. I pray that you all find the strength and love you need to get through this time. take care.
Krista
09-06-2008, 07:42 PM
I am sorry about your precious little girl Zelma. My heart goes out to you and your loved ones. Zelma will always be with you, you carry her close to your heart.
((HUGS))
Landon'sDad
09-23-2008, 12:52 PM
Hey everyone. This is the first time I have written anything on this page. I have come to it many times and read many of the post. It has gotten me through some rough times. I lost my son, Landon, in February. It took us 2 years to get pregnant, and lost Landon in the 7 month. We were very devasted. This program has given us memories that will last a lifetime. There is not a day that goes by that I don't look at Landon's pictures. Our photographer did an excellent job and I can never thank her enough for what she has given us. We are trying again to get pregnant, but Landon will be in our hearts forever. I just wanted to thank everyone who has posted. Your stories are very uplifting and encouraging. God Bless You All!
Eric
preciousteddy07
09-26-2008, 07:18 PM
sorry about your lose. It's hard losing a baby. I never carried mine full term my friend lost hers the day they were going to induce her. It's a pain noone can explain. you are not alone. you are in my thoughts.
Matthew's mom
11-12-2008, 10:55 PM
It has been a month for me and the tears are still flowing...Just know you have a safe, understanding forum here. Praying for you...
Laceys mama
11-13-2008, 12:01 AM
Zelma's Daddy,
My heart goes out to you. Our babys funeral was 2 months ago on the 11th. The hurt is awful and theres no magic words I can say to ease the pain you are feeling. The love in your heart is timeless and nothing can take that away.
Everyday I feel things that tug at my heart strings and make me want to cry.
I am so sorry for you and your families loss. Please be strong and you will be in my prayers.
Melody
soledad
11-13-2008, 01:43 AM
So sorry for your loss. I will pray for you and your family. Our babies, Zelma and my baby angel Landon must be playing in Heaven. Hang in there. day by day hour by hour.
MamaBethany
11-13-2008, 01:55 AM
I am so sorry to hear about Zelma's loss -- sadly every day new grieving parents find this group here -- it happens so much more frequently than I ever could have thought. My deepest, deepest sympathy to you, and also to Zelma's mommy. The tears -- when I cried for Bethany, I wished I could bathe her in them, because they were proof of my love for her. Each tear is worth its weight in gold.
laurakate
11-13-2008, 09:58 AM
I'm so very sorry. I know what you mean about the tears. It will have been almost 6 weeks on Monday since losing my son and I still cry every day, several times a day.
*hugs* to you and your wife. I am so sorry you lost Zelma. I'll never understand it.
Austin's Momma
12-04-2008, 09:59 PM
I am just now reading your original post from September. I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. I know the upcoming holidays are going to be difficult for all of us, so I just want you to know that I will be thinking about you and your family.
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