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Andi
10-08-2008, 05:20 AM
So today, we went to our 16 wk u/s and the tech starts scanning my anatomy...here is your cervix...and here is your bladder...now let's look for your ovaries...I didn't realize how stressed I was until I practically screamed that it would be great if she could just confirm that my child was ALIVE!! Tears were streaming down my face and I think that I startled her a little. This is how the u/s tech behaved when she was unable to find a heartbeat with our first pregnancy at 12 wks and I think that it was bringing back bad memories.

Although we didn't see the familiar flicker, we definitely started to see the baby moving. I calmed a little. She measured and measured and measured some more. A stomach? Check. Kidneys? (Thomas had non-functioning kidneys and no renal arteries. Therefore he could not make amniotic fluid and build up his lungs. It is called Potter's Sequence and is 100% fatal.) At least one kidney! Check. Yippee!! And a full little bladder!!! Yippee Yippee!! So nice to hear.

So the tech left and the Dr. came in. More measuring. The tech couldn't get the nasal bone. ??? So she's looking at the face and the baby spins and spreads it's legs. She tries to move on to measure a leg...more spinning and spreading. Then she tried to measure the tummy...spin...spread. Finally she said, "Your son would like to show you his boy parts. They are quite stellar." She is Irish, but we think it is funny. :-) Stellar. Hmmmmm. :-)

So....I was wrong. I was sure we were having a girl. I was positive. I was wrong. We are having another boy.

I hope that we get to keep this one. ;-)

Andi
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Jayme
10-08-2008, 08:41 AM
There's a story for the baby books! I am glad that he looks healthy and happy. I hope everything continues to go well. We have our 16 week on Oct. 20. I also think I'm having a girl-now you have me wondering. :)

MrsSpencer
10-08-2008, 09:02 AM
Glad everything looks good! I think all these little angels are up there playing tricks lol!

Vicki
10-08-2008, 09:36 AM
Andi . . .

I too hope you get to keep this little guy and his stellar boy parts (gotta admit that made me laugh) . . . so glad that your US went well but I can sure understand why you had the anxiety that you had . . .
You have my prayers and wishes for a healthy and happy pregnancy and birth!!!

Vicki

Marcus Momma
10-08-2008, 12:29 PM
I did the same thing was so sure I was having a girl but I think I was calming my nerves up until that point and now am having a boy. I was scared but now I am just anxious and ready for the months to hurry up and skip by so I can hold and kiss my healthy lil Nathan Reese Wolfe (Reese Cup!!) I know everything will be fine for you and the baby. Wishing you luck and prayers through the rest of it.

JenniferBrown
10-08-2008, 01:01 PM
I'm so glad it went good. I understand that 'jumping out of my skin, would you just tell me already' feeling.
Congrats on knowing it's another boy!!!

Candice
10-08-2008, 02:05 PM
I am so glad it went well! Looks like most of our angels are sending us same sex siblings!!!!

motherofthree
10-08-2008, 05:12 PM
Very cute story! He really, really wanted you to acknowledge his...um...manliness. I'm so gla to hear that the ultrasound went well and you got all good results! My Kavya had Potters (no kindneys, no renal arteries, no bladder) and we are just waiting for our ultrasound.

How are you feeling about your news that it's a boy? Does it make you more or less nervous? We won't find out for 2 more weeks!

Andi
10-09-2008, 03:54 AM
Thank you everyone for your words of encouragement. I'm feeling good about the pregnancy too. :-)

I think that I really wanted it to be a girl so that the entire experience would just be as different as it could be. I wanted to imagine everything differently so it would have a different outcome.

I guess that I'm OK with it being a boy. I'm just thrilled he is healthy! I feel almost normal. Our biggest concern right now is naming him. It was so so very hard to name Thomas Lee and then we weren't very original. Thomas is my husband's middle name and Lee is mine. Our back-up name was "stolen" by DH sister who had an unexpected pregnancy. GRRRRRR!!! I'm still mad about that!

Until we can agree on his name, I am calling him Voldemort (He Who Shall Not Be Named....or something close to that---Harry Potter books). This completely irritates DH, but I hope that it will incent him to keep working with me to come up with a name. :-)

Thanks again!

Andi
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Vicki
10-09-2008, 09:58 AM
Andi . . .

You have such a great sense of humor!!! Love the Voldemort . . .your husband will be grateful for any "normal" name that comes around after that!

MrsSpencer
10-09-2008, 10:14 AM
You crack me up!

motherofthree
10-09-2008, 10:16 AM
That's hilarious. Love it!