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MrsDisel
10-10-2009, 11:20 AM
With my last 3 pregnancies I always had a bunch of crazy sex dreams while I was pregnant. I know that is normal....but this pregnancy, so far all I've had are weird scary dreams.
The one I had a few nights ago, A friend who is pregnant right now, lost her baby and I was devastated for her and was bawling through out the dream and felt like crying when I wope up. The one I had this morning was awful....I dreamed that I was having spotting, then bleeding, and then eventually a miscarriage. I had another one yesterday night, but don't want to talk about it because its just weird and scary.
Do you think this is because of what happened to Isaac.....my usuall pregnant sex dreams have turned to scary ones due to losing Isaac and just the basic fear of something like that happening again??
I don't like them.....:(
Jaydensmom
10-10-2009, 11:43 AM
Oh Lee-Ann, I am so sorry. I really do think it is because of what happened to Isaac. I think we subconsciously tuck those fears and hurts into a box deep down inside of us. At night, when we can't control them, they surface in our dreams. Could you try sleeping to some peaceful music that you like to listen to? I wonder if it will help. I don't have a solution, just I'm sorry and I hope these dreams get better. Praying for you, and your precious little one today.
JillinGA
10-10-2009, 12:51 PM
I am so sorry you are going thru this. I remember trying to trust the Lord through-out another pregnancy, but in my humaness, being terrified that something might happen.
Unfortunately normal for this to happen.
You're in my thoughts and prayers for happier dreams!
Hugs~
Valerie'sMomma
10-10-2009, 12:57 PM
I agree with Jayden's Mommy. I think it is very normal to be scared of losing another baby. If we are expressing joy and happiness about our pregnancy during the day, it is only natural that we would express our true fears at night. I have had some frightening dreams during this pregnancy and some crazy sex dreams and of course dreams of my angel.
I think as we get some reassurance that the pregnancy is progressing well and we can accept that "this" baby we were meant raise- those frightening dreams will lessen.
Wishing you well.
MamaBethany
10-10-2009, 01:41 PM
How far along are you now? Just curious. (I'd love it if you'd make a pregnancy ticker so we can keep up with your progress.)
My dreams lately have been so frantic. I did have one bloody miscarriage dream a few weeks ago. But mostly I've been having dreams that I won't be a good mother....like having a baby there or maybe two and just not being able to keep up with breastfeeding and diaper changes. I haven't had a happy dream in ages ....if there's no babies in it, then I'm super busy and stressed out trying to do superhuman tasks. I don't understand them, and I don't like them either .....but they don't bother me during the day. I just don't feel very rested after being so stressed out in my dreams.
We've been through a lot and it's hard for anybody who has never lost a baby to understand how difficult it is to be pregnant again. But I understand you and so do most of us here .....Blessings Lee-Anne to you and your new little one. Know that little Isaac is with you and the baby and rooting for you!
By the way, we are naming our new son Jonathan Isaac.
MrsDisel
10-10-2009, 02:37 PM
How far along are you now? Just curious. (I'd love it if you'd make a pregnancy ticker so we can keep up with your progress.)
My dreams lately have been so frantic. I did have one bloody miscarriage dream a few weeks ago. But mostly I've been having dreams that I won't be a good mother....like having a baby there or maybe two and just not being able to keep up with breastfeeding and diaper changes. I haven't had a happy dream in ages ....if there's no babies in it, then I'm super busy and stressed out trying to do superhuman tasks. I don't understand them, and I don't like them either .....but they don't bother me during the day. I just don't feel very rested after being so stressed out in my dreams.
We've been through a lot and it's hard for anybody who has never lost a baby to understand how difficult it is to be pregnant again. But I understand you and so do most of us here .....Blessings Lee-Anne to you and your new little one. Know that little Isaac is with you and the baby and rooting for you!
By the way, we are naming our new son Jonathan Isaac.
Beautiful name!
I am due June 2nd, so I'm only about 6 1/2 weeks. I've got along way to go and praying like crazy that this one sticks and is healthy. I'm terrified....scared, lost, confused....everything. I'm excited to be pregnant, but the thought of losing another one terrifies me.
I'd add a ticker, but then I'd have to remove the blinkie I have in my siggy now......
cartersmomanddad
10-10-2009, 02:38 PM
Lee-Anne
I will lift you up to God, asking Him to carry you through this pregnancy with the quiet confidence of His love. I believe it's ok to be scared...we all would be! Hang in there and know that there are people all over this country lifting you up to God as well!
Sara
tstracener
10-12-2009, 01:50 PM
My dreams changed this time around too. I have had horrible dreams about delivery and other bad dreams not even dealing with pregnancy. I don't have nightmares just stressful dreams. Praying for you and your new little baby.
mommy of three angels
10-12-2009, 03:56 PM
Tracy,
how have u been? I'ts been a little while since i last heard from you..... How are you????
tstracener
10-12-2009, 08:13 PM
I have been doing well. I went to the doctor today and we confirmed a c-section date of Oct. 27 and thankfully everything looks good. How have you been?
mommy of three angels
10-13-2009, 11:35 AM
Wow. your time to have yout little girl is right around the courner.. I bet you are so excited..... Im so happy for you.. I wish you the best and please let me know when you have her please.... Samual is looking down at you and saying hi to his little sister. I've been doing ok. not to great not to bad. i want to try to have another baby though.
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